Haha funny how we did not last long? Forever even? I think I am still coming to terms…maybe you have, I would not know… I think it hurts more than I would want to admit. It hurts that this is what we have come to. It hurts to see we could not stomach our differences.… Continue reading Long Time Coming
It takes some sort of maturity and acceptance to know where you stand in someones life. Yes, especially in situationships! You just might be the right person but for now, for a while. It is more of short-term than long-term, and sometimes, SOMETIMES it is just okay to exist in that space. On the other… Continue reading Of Situationships
It was a busy day for me considering I had school and work! I had a report to hand in and assignment to submit before or by 11:59pm! Then my ex was all up in my business. Clearly, the devil had decided... So I decided to sit at the staircase and re-evaluate my life! I… Continue reading Bi-curious Self, or not…
Wanna judge me? By all means, go ahead... I hope you can add it to your resume that you also do a good job in judging people! Yes, I am in relationship and very much so-happy and content! Following a conversation this morning in a local radio station, a host asked his co-host, "how could… Continue reading My open relationship!
Hey, its Ella. Ella Waigi. That's right. Don't tilt/change...your whatever you are reading this post on. It's me, live and typing! No empathy, no nothing! Get a snack. Settle in, because I'm about to tell you the story of my life. (well part of what you already know) More specifically, why you cannot come close… Continue reading To The Girl Who Slept With My Boyfriend!
I had a choice. I always had and still have a choice but I decided otherwise I guess! Yes..I'm that girl. I should be sorry? See, I'm still trying to figure that part out but I don't quite feel excited right now. It all happened, not so fast, subtly actually and there I was, sailing… Continue reading Sorry I’m not sorry!
Uuuhm, to be quite honest I have thought about this post for a while now...a little over 6 months...yea, you can imagine and what made it spark again is a series I was watching over the weekend and some guy said "...whatever decision you make, be confident in it that you don't have to lie… Continue reading Sad Truths…
Have we all at some point been the other woman? My skepticism of the other woman has always gotten me thinking that maybe we all have been that woman at some point in life, that we have been that woman who some of us loathe and find distasteful. Now there are two realms to it;… Continue reading The Side…The Other.
She dared me and for a minute I was contemplating and finally thought why not? Something I don't think I've done before so y'all better come slow at me! Lets have some sex talk. No need to be embarrassed or scared..yaah??? (I think I'm trying to convince myself here) Why are we so ashamed or… Continue reading Let’s take some notes…
Here we go again! So a friend of mine passed on to me this screenshot and asked me if i agree or dispute, and well being a girl eehm I guess some things just go without saying... So I decided to bring it here and see what y'all think. If you agree or disagree. The… Continue reading Lowkey terms or nah?